Independence: Control Your Mindset With S.C.O.R.E.® Techniques

It’s the 3rd quarter of 2025.
Let that settle in.
The first half of the year—January through June—is in the books. And no matter what happened, whether you hit your goals or fell short, you’re standing at a brand-new starting line.
The only question that matters now is this:
Have you launched July, August, and September in a positive way?
You see, the S.C.O.R.E.® System teaches us that real independence isn’t just a patriotic concept, it’s a personal commitment to owning your thoughts, your energy, and your trajectory. In a world full of distractions, division, and drama, the most powerful form of freedom is this:
To fully embrace this concept, remember to Control Your Mindset at every opportunity to achieve true independence.
To truly achieve this independence, you must Control Your Mindset by harnessing the power of your thoughts and emotions effectively.
The independence to manage your own mind.
Independence Starts in the Mind
While America celebrates political independence every July, far too many people are mentally enslaved and bound by fear, frustration, regret, worry, and self-doubt. These forces rob us of clarity, energy, and joy.
That’s where the S.C.O.R.E.® System comes in.
S.C.O.R.E.® stands for Self-discipline, Concentration, Optimism, Relaxation, and Enjoyment. These are the five mental markers of a peak performer, and when they’re in balance, you enter the Zone. But here’s the truth: You can’t live in the Zone if your mindset is held hostage by external circumstances.
Independence means you take full responsibility for the thoughts you allow—and reject.
“You are the gatekeeper of your mind. No thought enters without your permission.”
Let Go of the First Half
We’re now in Q3, the most pivotal quarter of the year. It’s the turning point, the back nine, the third period, the final set-up for the finish. Champions use this time to re-focus and re-commit.
But you can’t move forward if you’re dragging the weight of January through June behind you.
- Did the first half drain you?
- Did it fall short of what you hoped?
- Did you lose momentum?
That’s okay.
You are not your past results. You are not your numbers, your mistakes, or your missed goals. But you are responsible for what you do now.
That’s mental independence.
The greats detach from the past and return to the present. They evaluate, adjust, and visualize. They simplify. They re-align their S.C.O.R.E.® levels and reboot the plan with confidence.
The Drivers Who Inspired a Lesson
Last month, during a series of events in cities across the U.S., I met five remarkable men, not on stage or in business meetings, but in the back seats of Ubers and taxis.
Each driver was an American. One from Indiana. One from Florida. One from New York. Another from Arizona. One more from California.
And each one had a story.
These weren’t just drivers. These were dreamers. Visionaries. Hustlers. They were working not for survival, but for independence. They had chosen the flexible grind of driving to create room for something more—education, family support, entrepreneurial growth.
One said, “America is a place where you can accomplish anything. I want my slice.”
Another said, “I always wanted to start my own company.”
Another said, “This is a sacrifice—but I’m doing it for my four kids.”
They weren’t victims of their circumstances. They were authors of their future.
That’s the American Way. That’s the S.C.O.R.E.® Way.
The Danger of Mental Dependence
When your S.C.O.R.E.® Level is low, you become dependent—on circumstances, moods, other people’s approval, even the past. You become reactive instead of proactive. You begin to drift.
- Self-discipline fades, and distractions take over.
- Concentration breaks, and productivity slows.
- Optimism disappears, and negative self-talk creeps in.
- Relaxation gives way to stress and tension.
- Enjoyment evaporates, and life feels flat.
Before long, your performance dips. Your relationships suffer. Your sense of direction dissolves.
That’s what mental dependence does—it steals your ability to choose how you think, feel, and act.
But the antidote is simple: Reclaim your independence. Reclaim your S.C.O.R.E.®.
Freedom Means Options
True independence means you always have a choice:
- You can re-invent yourself at any time.
- You can choose positivity or pessimism.
- You can start a new routine. Let go of a limiting belief. Build a new goal.
- You can choose to smile.
- You can choose to visualize a new future.
- You can choose to perform with joy and rhythm again.
In America, we’re fortunate to have freedom of religion, speech, and opportunity.
But perhaps our most powerful freedom is the freedom to direct our own thoughts.
Tools to Reclaim Your Mental Independence
Here’s how to reset and own your Q3:
1. Use the S.C.O.R.E.® Check √ Daily
Ask yourself each day:
- Am I clear and focused on what matters?
- Is my self-discipline aligned with my goals?
- Is my concentration undisturbed?
- Am I optimistic in my self-talk?
- Am I relaxed and breathing with calm?
- Am I finding joy in the process?
This self-awareness tool realigns you with your Zone.
2. Visualize Daily with the 90-Second Mental Movie™
Create a vivid, short mental movie of exactly how you want your day, week, or month to go. See it as if it’s already happened. Visualization isn’t fantasy—it’s preparation.
3. Simplify & Focus on One Big Win
Don’t overcomplicate your comeback. Pick one key goal or area for improvement in Q3, and give it everything. Mental independence thrives on clarity.
4. Stop Comparing—Start Creating
Let go of what others are doing. Instead, use your mental energy to create your future, not critique someone else’s.
5. Surround Yourself with Makers, Not Breakers
Your S.C.O.R.E.® Level is directly affected by your environment. Choose voices that build, not break. That encourage, not envy. That inspire, not inflame.
You Are Free to Lead
Independence is the ability to lead yourself—even when it’s hard.
Those five drivers reminded me that success doesn’t start with resources. It starts with resourcefulness. It starts with vision. It starts with belief.
Independence is not entitlement. It’s effort.
It’s not comfort. It’s clarity.
It’s not wishing. It’s working with intention, from the inside out.
Q3 Is Yours—Claim It
This is your clean slate.
It doesn’t matter what happened in the first half. What matters now is that you take control of your thoughts, recalibrate your S.C.O.R.E.®, and move forward with freedom and focus.
Independence isn’t reserved for a holiday or a flag.
Independence is something you claim every single day—with your breath, your choices, your self-talk, and your vision.
So be bold. Be the gatekeeper. Be in the Zone.
Independence. It’s not just the American Way—it’s the S.C.O.R.E.® Way.
Own your mind. Own your moment. Own your future.
And launch Q3 with strength. “Be in the Zone. Think independently. Perform freely.”